Sowing the seeds of victimhood.
What a person believes they are in their heart, so they are.
If as this lady you see yourself as a victim, then you’ll live a life reflecting that belief.
A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh.
Once your heart has been convinced of something, in this case, that the lady believes she is a victim, then it is only a matter of time before you speak those things from a believing heart into your life both good and bad.
Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
This is why it is written...
Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.
And we are warned...
1 Corinthians 15:33
Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.
If you find yourself surrounded by people promoting a victim mentality, then consider what type of harvest you shall reap when the seeds you allowed them to sow into your heart come to full maturity.
Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.